Introduction

Chapter 22 – 1. Introduction

Take pity on yourself, so long enslaved. Rejoice whom God hath joined
have come together and need no longer look on sin apart. No two can look
on sin together, for they could never see it in the same place and time. Sin is
a strictly individual perception, seen in the other yet believed by each to be
within himself. And each one seems to make a different error, and one the
other cannot understand. Brother, it is the same, made by the same, and
forgiven for its maker in the same way. The holiness of your relationship
forgives you and your brother, undoing the effects of what you both
believed and saw. And with their going is the need for sin gone with them.
 
Who has need for sin? Only the lonely and alone, who see their brothers
different from themselves. It is this difference, seen but not real, that makes
the need for sin, not real but seen, seem justified. And all this would be real
if sin were so. For an unholy relationship is based on differences, where
each one thinks the other has what he has not. They come together, each to
complete himself and rob the other. They stay until they think that there is
nothing left to steal, and then move on. And so they wander through a world
of strangers, unlike themselves, living with their bodies perhaps under a
common roof that shelters neither; in the same room and yet a world apart.
 
A holy relationship starts from a different premise. Each one has looked
within and seen no lack. Accepting his completion, he would extend it by
joining with another, whole as himself. He sees no difference between these
selves, for differences are only of the body. Therefore, he looks on nothing
he would take. He denies not his own reality because it is the truth. Just
under Heaven does he stand, but close enough not to return to earth. For this
relationship has Heaven’s holiness. How far from home can a relationship
so like to Heaven be?
 
Think what a holy relationship can teach! Here is belief in differences
undone. Here is the faith in differences shifted to sameness. Reason now
can lead you and your brother to the logical conclusion of your union. It
must extend, as you extended when you joined. It must reach out beyond
itself, as you reached out beyond the body, to let yourselves be joined. And
now the sameness that you saw extends and finally removes all sense of
differences, so that the sameness that lies beneath them all becomes
apparent. Here is the golden circle where you recognize the Son of God. For
what is born into a holy relationship can never end.